I log into my Instagram account, two really handsome guys pop up on my screen. They are handsome, quite alright but you know what? They are gay! I scroll past uninterested. Then, I turn on my laptop to watch a movie, the main characters are gay too. Almost immediately, a news update pops up. Something about a homosexual marriage…

They are everywhere. Social media, movies and even in real life. It is now the ‘new normal‘ (air quote ). Can I tell you something ? It is not normal!

Let me take you down the story lane, when God created the earth and everything in it, he made Man and Woman – Adam and Eve. Not Madison and Eve or Adam and Steve.

Then Adam said, “This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.”

Genesis 2:23 AMP

God did not create a Man for Adam. He knew fully well that a Woman will be a suitable partner for him. Same goes for Eve too.

Things homosexuals say to justify themselves

  • I was made that way : no you were not dear! God made Adam to be attracted to Eve. He made Adam to have feelings for Eve. Why then will He make you any different? The world through the media, science and organised groups has convinced you that you were made so. Some nonsense about it being your genetic makeup. Whose report do we believe, who the world says we are or what our Maker says we are?

I will give thanks and praise to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well.

Psalms 139:14 AMP
  • God is not mad at what I do since He created me like that : just now, I made it clear that you were definitely not created to have feelings for the same sex. If God did not create you that way, He will be displeased with any “act” that is not consistent with His will. Every product has a manufacturer’s operational design and manual. Now, imagine the manufacturer seeing the state you have put his product in. I know for sure that he will not shake your hands proudly or sign you a check to cash out. That is how it is with God too.

God’s anger is revealed from heaven against all the sin and evil of the people whose evil ways prevent the truth from being known.

Romans 1:18 GNT
  • It is my body so I have the right to choose what i do with it : culture tells us we have the autonomy to decide what we do with our bodies. This does not have any hint of truth. When you surrendered your life to the lordship of Christ, the Holy Spirit came to live in you and He, has ownership of it now. If you have not surrendered to or accepted Christ, then we can say you have every right to do what you want with your body. You were made in God’s image and likeness. Why degrade it by using it for the wrong purpose?

Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you? Don’t you know that you have the Holy Spirit from God, and you don’t belong to yourselves?

1 Corinthians 6:19 CEB

I do not agree with people who judge those who are gay, lesbians, bisexual, transgender, cross dressers and all of that. Trust me, I am totally against it. I do not like what they do neither am I in support of it but that does not permit me to hate them. Here’s a word of advice from Gloria Ochai, anchor of ‘Life talks with Gloria ‘ podcast to people out there who avoid these set of people like the Egyptian plague :

You shouldn’t hate the player. Hate the game instead. See them with love. That’s the only way they’ll hear you out.

In Paul’s days, he had to deal with some form of sexual immorality. Do you think if he went around looking at them with judgy eyes or discriminating, they would have changed? Of course not! It would have only worsened their affections. By correcting in love, he was able to restore them .

Don’t hate the player. Hate the game instead!

GLORIA OCHAI, anchor of Life talks with Gloria Podcast.

How to get out of this homosexuality thing

  • Come to God : see Him for who He is. See Him as loving and willing to accept you despite the way you are and irrespective of what you have done. I am not saying you should come to the end of your sexuality to please society. That will just be you trying to live up to a moral standard. Instead, let God change you.
  • Surrender to Him : surrender your self, your affections, your sexuality to Him. That is the only way you will break free. Firstly, you should go back your source – GOD. This is the beginning of the healing journey. Then, sustained affirmations or confessions from God’s Word and Therapy will go a long way.
  • Talk to someone : now, this is the hard part. People tend to be judgy. Nevertheless, there’s that one person out there who has probably gone through it before and won’t judge you. This will help keep you accountable to someone and guide you from falling back with ease.

Jackie Hill Perry’s inspiring story

Teacher, Poet, artiste and self-proclaimed former lesbian, Jackie Hill Perry grew up fatherless and experienced gender confusion. She embraced masculinity and homosexuality with every fibre of her being.

She knew that Christians had a lot to say about all of the above. But was she supposed to change herself? How was she supposed to stop loving women when homosexuality felt more natural to her than heterosexuality ever could?

At age nineteen, Jackie came face-to-face with what it meant to be made new. God broke in and turned her heart toward Him right in her own bedroom in light of His gospel.

Jackie is now married to her heart throb, Preston and has three beautiful kids, Eden, Autumn and Sage.


Jackie overcame her desire for same-sex relationships by focusing on the love of God.

I trust you read and were inspired…

I hope like Jackie, you will make the right choice to see yourself in God and believe Him to restore you and make you new. Healing is possible!

Please share on your social media platforms and leave a comment as I always love to hear from you .

When God created the earth and everything in it, he made Man and Woman – Adam and Eve. Not Madison and Eve or Adam and Steve.

I do not agree with people who judge those who are gay, lesbians, bisexual, transgender, cross dressers, etc. I do not like what they do neither am I in support of it but that does not permit me to hate them.

Don’t hate the player. Hate the game instead!

13 responses to “Adam and Eve; not Steve!”

  1. Light✨ Avatar

    Hate the game and not the players💯. The love of God changes it all. I’m inspired,✨

    Liked by 1 person

    1. BraimohGod'sglory Avatar

      You caught that! 💯

      I’m glad that you’re inspired.


  2. Dare Avatar

    Homosexuality is totally contrary to God’s plan for humanity and must be totally rebuffed— show Jesus’ love to those caught in the web for their deliverance.

    Nice job, more grace.

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Destiny Ikpotokin Avatar

    Thank you so much ma for talking about this… We gotta hate the game and love the players enough to let them know there’s a better life.💞✨

    Liked by 2 people

  4. gonnaa Avatar

    This take is actually quite pathetic. It wouldn’t take a minute to do some research and not come out here, blatantly displaying your ignorance. People aren’t gay because they choose to be; they’re gay because they simply are. Heterosexuals know they’re heterosexuals, so why do you think homosexuals are confused?

    Sexuality isn’t a choice; people have zero control over it. If it were, I doubt anyone would choose to be treated differently, harassed, abused and even killed.

    Also, god made Eve for Adam? How stupid is that? You say that so confidently and yet do not realize how problematic it is? Women were made for men? Women have no personalities of their own, but were made to keep men company? To be nothing but fucking blow-up dolls?

    Your entire article is misogynistic and homophobic. And no, homophobia isn’t just violent hate; it includes willful ignorance, lack of respect and empathy, and and gross entitlement and gall, thinking straight is the default and any sexuality that isn’t heterosexuality is abnormal.

    Just so you know, sexuality is mostly innate. Homosexuality has existed forever and didn’t just come about with the advent of technology and social media.

    Finally, I hope you realize that people who have zero sexual attraction to others exist as well, so your whole theory that god made men and women to be sexually attracted to each other is just bullshit.

    A mess of an article. So loud, yet so wrong.

    PS: Keep deleting it, okay?


    1. BraimohGod'sglory Avatar

      Hi there!
      I sincerely appreciate your response to my blog post. I respect all my readers and this article was never intended to demean anyone’s personality.

      Thank you for opening me up to some things I may not have considered while writing the article. I will humbly keep learning and seek more knowledge on the topic.

      Notwithstanding, this was just sharing my position on the topic based on my faith and the Holy Scriptures (which remains unarguably the most accurate of all books). I am very sorry if it may have hurt you in anyway. It truly was unintentional.

      I admit I may be wrong but the Holy Scriptures which remains the most accurate of all books is never wrong. It was on this premise I developed my content and shared to my readers.

      I apologize again if I may have hurt you in anyway. I never meant it that way.

      But we both can agree on this, “Jesus loves you.” He came as a gift to the world for you and I so we all may have eternal life (God’s very life).

      I really do appreciate you…
      Much love !🌹



    How I live must be consistent with God’s will regardless of culture or societal norms.

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  6. gonnaa Avatar

    This is actually quite a shitty take. Just like heterosexuals know they aren’t gay, gay people know they aren’t straight. It’s innate; not learned behavior and definitely didn’t come about with the advent of technology and social media. One has zero control over their sexuality. Maybe you should read more about it (and ask questions) rather than come out here and blatantly display your ignorance.
    Also, god made Eve for Adam? Really? You say that and don’t realize how problematic it is? Women were made for men? They don’t have a personalities themselves, but were made to provide company for men, seeing as they are nothing but blow-up dolls.
    Your entire article is misogynistic and homophobic. And no, homophobia isn’t just violent hate; it also includes willful ignorance, lack of respect and empathy, and just general entitlement and disgusting nerve, thinking that anyone who isn’t straight is abnormal.
    Finally, people who feel no sexual attraction exist as well, so your whole theory of god creating women for men is quite altogether idiotic.

    Liked by 1 person

  7. Victor Enejo Adeyi Avatar
    Victor Enejo Adeyi

    I was created to give God pleasure 🥰🥰

    Liked by 3 people

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